The Mattress Expert

Sleeping on a 12 year old Westin Heavenly Bed Mattress.

Geoff writes:

 

Hi Pete,

I have read a lot about choosing mattress type and firmness based on a person's weight and sleep position. 

The information is all based on individual sleepers and never addresses any special considerations for couples.

 

My wife and I are both 63 years old, physically fit and active. 

We are currently sleeping on a 12 year old Westin Heavenly Bed Mattress. 

I am 5'11", 162lbs and a side and back sleeper who has begun suffering pressure point problems in both shoulders. My wife is 5'9", 107lb and a strict side sleeper with no current pressure point problems.

 

We sleep on a queen bed and spend a lot of time spooned tightly together front to back. 

But we also spend time apart particularly when shoulder pain drives me onto my back or it is too warm to be cuddled together.

 

So, while my wife is in the <130lbs petite category and I am in the 130lb - 230lb average category, when we are spooned together, we fall in the >230lb large category.

 

What does this mean for choosing a firmness and support level? 

Everything I read would suggest a soft (4 - 5) firmness for my wife, a medium (5 - 6) for me and more like a medium firm/firm (6.5 - 7.5) to gain the support required for our combined weight to maintain spinal alignment when spooned together.

 

Any insight you can provide on how to think this through and select the best firmness level would be appreciated.

I would also be interested in any specific bed recommendations you might put forward.

Thank you in advance, Geoff

 

Hi Geoff,

Frankly, you’re over thinking this.

A good strong individually pocketed coil unit will provide the contouring support any body needs for proper spinal alignment.

A soft latex mattress topper will provide the surface comfort you need to sleep deeply.

Rotating your new mattress on a regular basis will cause the mattress to wear evenly, providing long lasting support and comfort for both of you.

 

The mattress I’m recommending is the Wolf Jessica.

Click on this link to view specifications and prices.

https://themattressexpert.com/our-brands/wolf-mattress/the-jessica/

 

Add to that a Suite Sleep 2” or 3” Soft Organic Latex Topper.

Shown here:

https://themattressexpert.com/latex-toppers/suite-sleep-toppers/

 

The 2” provides excellent comfort and longevity.

The 3” provides a more luxurious surface feel, but wears faster.

Both last for years…more years with the 2”.

 

Delivery is FREE and there’s NO Sales Tax.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Thanks, Pete

 

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We recommend our Organic Cotton Waterproof Mattress Protector. 

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Flipping a Sealy SpringFree latex mattress.

Barbara writes:

 

 

Hi Pete,

I bought a Sealy SpringFree latex mattress, about 15 to 20 years ago.

5 to 10 years into it, it started showing a permanent dip in middle. 

I called Sealy. They were no help.

I did put a 2" latex topper on it, which helped for a while, but now my lower back is killing me, 

I'm now 65, with many pressure points. 

I was told by Sealy not to flip the mattress, but I saw some of the Q&As on your blog, where you suggested flipping it and adding a soft Talalay latex topper?

Any advice appreciated, oh my aching back.

Barbara

 

Hi Barbara,

Sealy wants you to buy new.

Flipping your mattress and adding your topper is a trick that often works and costs you nothing to try.

Try it. Your back will feel better.

 

 

 

 

 

Thanks, Pete

 

VERY IMPORTANT:

Keeping your mattress clean and dry will increase its longevity.

We recommend our Organic Cotton Waterproof Mattress Protector. 

https://themattressexpert.com/bedding/sleepbeyond/sleep-beyond-bedding/sleep-beyond-mattress-protector/

 

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Sealy SpringFree Beachside Latex Mattress.

Lori writes:

 

Hi, Pete.

I hope all is well on your end.

Many years ago, I bought a Sealy SpringFree Beachside Latex Mattress from you that we have loved. 

It’s lived quite a life span but needs to be replaced now. Can you recommend one just like it?

Just a bit about me. I’m 73 now, so pressure points need to be comfortable. 

I’m 5’6”, have a bad back that’s killing me lately, weigh 180, most of which are in my stomach, hips and butt. Side sleeper 90%/back sleeper/10%. 

I need a full-size mattress (sleep with 3 furbabies) with good edge support.

I sleep only on one side of it, and spend 4 or more hours with my elbow digging into the bed while on my side watching tv. Like the Sealy was, I need a bed that’s easy to turn or move around on – NO sinking or sagging. 

I’m like the old Princess who could feel a pea if it were under her mattress.

 

This is my last hurrah for buying a mattress. For health and financial reasons, I can’t ‘afford’ to make a mistake (not that anyone can, I know..)  So, I’m turning to you… What do you think I should do? 

Any advice would be sooo appreciated.

Lori

 

Hi Lori,

You may or may not need a new mattress.

It’s the soft poly foam on top of that Beachside which has worn.

 

I recommend getting someone to flip the mattress over for you.

The flip side exposes the firm latex core.

Add to that, a Suite Sleep 3” Soft Vita Talalay Latex Topper for the surface comfort you want….shown here:

https://themattressexpert.com/latex-toppers/suite-sleep-toppers/

 

Shipping is free and there's no sales tax.

 

Not only does Sealy not make that mattress anymore, Sealy isn’t even Sealy anymore…purchased by Tempurpedic in 2013.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Thanks, Pete

 

VERY IMPORTANT:

Keeping your mattress clean and dry will increase its longevity.

We recommend our Organic Cotton Waterproof Mattress Protector. 

https://themattressexpert.com/bedding/sleepbeyond/sleep-beyond-bedding/sleep-beyond-mattress-protector/

 

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I have an old mattress that I need to make more comfortable.

Evan writes:

 

Hi Pete,

I have an old mattress that I need to make more comfortable.

Even though it's old, it's in great condition, just too firm.

I used to like it that way, but with age, I find that I need extra cushioning.

After reading some of your blog posts, I believe that Pure Bliss latex topper is the way to go.

My question is, 2" or 3"?

Thanks, Evan

 

Hi Evan,

If it's just you, you are likely fine with the 2".

If there's a female involved, the 3" provides better comfort to accommodate the curves of the female body.

We use the 3" at home, for my wife's hip...the usual sensitive spot on a woman.

I must confess, I like it more than the 2" we use to have.

There's no question about it, the 3" is more comfortable than the 2".

Here is a link to the Pure Bliss Natural Talalay Latex Toppers. You'll want the Plush...not the Firm.

https://themattressexpert.com/pure-latexbliss-toppers/

You can order that, securely, online:

UPS shipping is free and there's no sales tax.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Thanks, Pete

 

VERY IMPORTANT:

Keeping your mattress clean and dry will increase its longevity.

We recommend our Organic Cotton Waterproof Mattress Protector. 

https://themattressexpert.com/bedding/sleepbeyond/sleep-beyond-bedding/sleep-beyond-mattress-protector/

 

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Hip, Shoulder and Back Pain on a Simmons Beautyrest Bradford Mattress.

Mary writes:

 

Hi Pete, 

I bought a Simmons Beautyrest Bradford queen mattress, 6 months ago, for hip and shoulder pain.

I was told it would relieve the pressure in those areas, only to find it’s made it worst along with a sore back. 

It was not an inexpensive purchase. I'm so disappointed, along with the pain. 

What mattress would you recommend or is there a mattress topper I could use to help.

Thank you, Mary

 

Hi Mary,

A latex mattress topper works if the mattress is too firm.

If that the problem with your mattress, then simply add a Suite Sleep Pure, All Natural Soft Organic Latex Topper.

The 2" is good. the 3" is better.

https://themattressexpert.com/latex-toppers/suite-sleep-toppers/

Shipping is free and there's no sales tax.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Thanks, Pete

 

VERY IMPORTANT:

Keeping your mattress clean and dry will increase its longevity.

We recommend our Organic Cotton Waterproof Mattress Protector. 

https://themattressexpert.com/bedding/sleepbeyond/sleep-beyond-bedding/sleep-beyond-mattress-protector/

 

Website: http://themattressexpert.com/

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A Latex Topper on a Form Mattress to Relieve Pain.

Lynn writes:

 

Hi Pete,

I suffer from DDD, Migraines, arthritis and take a hormone blocker for breast cancer that gives me general aches.

 

We have a firm mattress that is probably around 10 years old. 

It's starting to show signs of indented body outlines. 

I sleep on a pillow that has a hollowed out center for your head when you lay on your back.

 

Every morning, when I get out of bed, my body hurts so bad I have to sit on side of bed to try to move. 

My neck is so bad, I can’t turn it to the right, and see a chiropractor to try to make it turn. 

My Upper shoulder muscles have knots. I get Botox for my migraines. 

The neurologist always places some across the band of muscles at base of skull, as well as along my traps. 

My neck has lost its curvature due to my muscles being so taught for so many years.

 

Last night we slept on the Heavenly mattress at the Westin Hotel. 

I came home fully anticipating to buy one. I have never slept so well. 

My body did not hurt at all and I had full range of motion on my neck! I was just ecstatic. 

Then, I read the information on your page about it being great for 1 night but not for much longer as it it’s too soft and will cause back pain. I was devastated.

 

Can you please help me determine what type of mattress we should by as well as recommend a mattress Topper that may help get us a few more months or a year with current mattress.

Kindest regards, Lynn

 

Hi Lynn,

It sounds like a topper is the first step.

A good one should relieve many of your aches and pains.

It has to be soft, chemical free, and remain like new for a few years...wearing slowly.

The EverEden 3” Soft all natural Vytex Dunlop Latex Topper is the one to get.

Shown here:

https://themattressexpert.com/talalay-dunlop-latextoppers/

100% All Natural Talalay and Dunlop Latex Mattress Toppers. | The Mattress Expert 100% All-Natural Vytex Dunlop Latex Mattress Toppers. Ever-Eden’s Vytex Dunlop is, virtually, Allergen Free. And while the Vytex Dunlop comes in the same 2 choices of comfort levels, Dunlop is a more dense material and does not have as supple a feel as the Talalay Latex Toppers. themattressexpert.com

Shipping is free and there’s no sales tax.

 

There’s no point in discussing a mattress at this time.

Things change regularly in this industry.

The topper should be all you need for, maybe, years.

You might try the topper on both sides of your mattress and use it on whichever side produces the better result.

 

You’ll, likely, to be able to use that same topper on whatever mattress comes next.

 

 

 

 

We recommend using a waterproof mattress protector with every mattress.

Keeping the upholstery materials clean and dry will extend the life of the mattress.

https://themattressexpert.com/bedding/gotcha-covered/

 

 

Thanks, Pete

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Wolf or Natura Greenspring brand mattresses for Side Sleepers?

Gary writes:

 

Hi Pete,

 

What is better for side sleepers, the Wolf or Natura Greenspring brand mattresses?

Thanks, Gary

 

Hi Gary,

Strictly for the sake of pressure point relief at the hip and shoulder...the major sources of pain for a side sleeper...

The Wolf Hybrid Tulah Plush EuroTop Mattress is the one with the best surface comfort.

The individually pocketed coils will maintain the natural alignment of the spine, which also relieves back pain.

The durability of double tempered steel coils makes a good choice for a large person.

Here’s a link to that mattress.

https://themattressexpert.com/our-brands/wolf-mattresses/wolf-hybrid-mattress/

Wolf Hybrid Mattress | The Mattress Expert All Mattresses are Freshly Made to Fill Your Order. Approx. Delivery Wait Time: 1 to 2 Weeks. FedEx or UPS Delivery to the Front Door. Delivery is Free and There’s NO Sales Tax. themattressexpert.com

You can order online.

Shipping is free and there’s no sales tax.

 

 

 

 

We recommend using a waterproof mattress protector with every mattress.

Keeping the upholstery materials clean and dry will extend the life of the mattress.

https://themattressexpert.com/bedding/gotcha-covered/

 

 

Thanks, Pete

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Simmons Beautyrest Felicity II Pillow Top Mattress.

Noelle writes:

 

Good morning Pete,

We are presently looking for a specific mattress.

It’s called: Simmons Beautyrest Felicity II Pillow Top Mattress.

 

I have a picture of the tag that was on the mattress and a picture of the mattress itself.  

We have been searching for this specific mattress for a couple of weeks now and with the covid-19 I would rather not go into any stores right now.  

We slept on this mattress a few nights and our pressure points (hips and shoulder) were not sore the next morning when we got up. 

Do you have this mattress? 

If you do how much would it cost for a queen and King size mattress? 

Do you sell the box spring that comes with it as well? 

We live in northern Ontario I would be looking at purchasing 2 mattresses.

 

Thank you for your time in advance, Noelle

 

Hi Noelle,

The mattresses Simmons makes for hotels are made differently from the mattresses they make for retail stores.

The difference is memory foam...which is purposefully designed to cause a mattress to need frequent replacing. Their Hospitality line of mattresses have no memory foam in them.

 

You cannot but a hotel mattress at a retail store, and visa-versa.

The only place to buy the mattress you want, is through a hotel, directly.

Some hotels offer their mattress for sale. Some do not.

I believe you can, but what you want through Holiday Inn Express.

You might want check with the hotel in which you stayed.

 

You don't want a mattress made with memory foam.

When buying a mattress, memory foam is THEE component to avoid.

Memory Foam is, by far, the lowest quality upholstery material ever invented.

 

Thanks Pete

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Layla Pure Latex Mattress in Rhode Island?

Elaine writes:

Hi Pete,

I currently have a therapeutic memory foam mattress (firm), which is not sagging and have had it for 17 years.  

I have been waking up with shoulder and arm pain and lower back pain. 

I am wondering if all that pain could be do to the mattress.

Are there any stores in Rhode Island which carry the Layla mattresses?  Pure Latex?

Thank you, Elaine

 

Hi Elaine,

I'm sure that your mattress is causing your pain.

To find out if there are stores in your area that carry what you want:

Do a google search, with the name of those products and your state.

The Layla mattress is a memory foam mattress.

 

You might also consider adding a Pure Bliss 2" or 3" Plush Latex Topper to the mattress you have.

Shown here:

https://themattressexpert.com/pure-latexbliss-toppers/

Shipping is free and there's no sales tax.

 

 

 

 

VERY IMPORTANT:

Keeping your mattress clean and dry will increase longevity.

Use our Organic Cotton Waterproof Mattress Protector. 

https://themattressexpert.com/bedding/gotcha-covered/protectors/

Thanks, Pete

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Simmons Beautyrest Extra Firm Mattress and 3" Plush Latex Topper for Scoliosis and Hip Pain.

Hi Pete,

My husband and I are looking to replace a (just) 4-year-old queen Serta Perfect Sleeper mattress. 

We're VERY disappointed in it's fast depressions and sagging, and we both suffer misery nightly.

It gives me pressure point, hips and shoulder pain and numbness in my arm. 

My husband is suffering with general, overall soreness.  

We've always had Cushion Firm mattresses. But, the last two we've had, have failed very quickly.

What you say, about the decline of quality in these mattresses, is very true.  

We're now better educated, thanks to you, and are so nonplussed about the idea of buying another typical innerspring mattress, and setting ourselves up for more early planned obsolescence.

 

I'm 55 years, 5'4" and about 140 pounds, and have had severe scoliosis since my teenage years.

I need the fusion surgery but have no plans to get it, ever.  I'm a side and stomach sleeper.

My husband is 53 years, 5'9" and about 170 pounds.  Side and back sleeper.  No health problems.  Snores!  :)

 

I don't know that we can afford an all-latex mattress...or if that would be the best thing for my scoliosis.  

After reading your site and blog, I'm wondering if the Simmons Beautyrest Platinum Gibson Grove Luxury Firm with a Pure Bliss Plush latex topper would be ideal...or if the Extra Firm would be better...or what?  

I just keep thinking about my pressure points, which make my legs ache for hours after I get up.  

And for the topper, would 2" or 3" inches be better?  

Oh the choices.  My head spins.  I'd be so grateful for your help!

Many thanks, Lisa

 

 

Hi Lisa,

That you've been reading is extremely helpful to both of us.

In doing so, you now have a handle on what it is you should have and why.

The Simmons Beautyrest Platinum Gibson Grove is an ideal choice.

The individually pocketed coils provide firm support that maintains the natural alignment of your spine.

The extra firm model, for a side sleeping female, will apply too much pressure on your hip. 

However, the extra firm will be better for your severe scoliosis.

Using a Pure Bliss 3" Plush Natural Talalay Latex Topper will offset the pressure at the hip.

Together, both of your issues will be addressed.

Here are links to both.

https://themattressexpert.com/our-brands/simmons/beautyrest-recharge-world-class/

Beautyrest Recharge World Class Mattresses For Sale | The Mattress Expert Beautyrest Recharge World Class Mattress is known for providing both comfort and support. Contact The Mattress Expert to order yours today! 856-874-6894 themattressexpert.com

 

https://themattressexpert.com/pure-latexbliss-toppers/

The mattress comes with White Glove Delivery, which includes set-up and removal of your old mattress.

The Latex Topper arrives via UPS.

Delivery is free, for both, and there's no sales tax.

 

 

 

 

VERY IMPORTANT:

Keeping your mattress clean and dry will increase longevity.

Use our Organic Cotton Waterproof Mattress Protector. 

https://themattressexpert.com/bedding/gotcha-covered/protectors/

Thanks, Pete

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