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New Stearns and Foster Mattress Feels Squishy.

Mellissa writes:

Hi Pete,

My boyfriend and I purchased a new Stearns and Foster luxury firm pillow top mattress about 3 weeks ago. 

The bed is at my house and he generally only stays over on weekends. 

I'm heavier, about 275 pounds. 

The side of the mattress that I sleep on already feels much, much squishier than the side that doesn't get slept on as often, the other side still feels nice and firm. I want to exchange the mattress, a tight top seems to be the way to go from what I've been reading on your site, but the names are too confusing on the Sears’ website. help? Thanks, Mellissa

 

Hi Mellissa,

Before making the exchange, you have to understand the problem.

Being a pillow top mattress is only part of the problem.

The memory foam upholstery is the main source of your problem.

Memory foam is a temperature sensitive material that softens as it warms from your body’s heat. It’s not very resistant to start, so it doesn’t take long before you’re sinking into it much too much.

Be sure to exchange that mattress for one with no memory foam.

S&F was sold to Tempur-Pedic in 2013. They haven’t made a mattress worth buying for more than a decade.

TME sells no mattresses that contain any memory foam.

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A mattress that holds up well under 230 lbs.

Anton writes:

Hi Pete,

I weigh 230 lbs.

What kind of mattress do I need that does not get indentations in 2 yrs.

Thanks, Anton

 

Hi Anton,

A mattress developing body impressions is the nature of the beast.

The upholstery that provides the surface comfort is pressure sensitive.

The more weight applied, the deeper the impression.

 

Besides body weight, there’s the quality of the upholstery to consider.

The softer and less resistant the upholstery, the deeper the impression.

 

To minimize the body impression and the frequency of having to replace a mattress, think in terms of a sleep system, rather than just a mattress.

Start with a mattress that uses pure, organic latex.

Latex has always been the most resilient upholstery material.

But at your weight, add a removable latex topper to your new mattress.

 

The topper will absorb much of your body weight, which preserves the mattress. Over time, you’ll replace only the topper, as needed, and not the mattress. By doing this, your new mattress will last for many years.

The mattress I’m recommending is the PlushBeds Luxury Bliss.

Click on this link to view and order that mattress:

 

Hybrid Latex Mattress - The Luxury Bliss plushbeds.com

 

Add to that, a latex topper from Latex for Less.

Click on this link to view and order that topper:

 

Natural Latex Mattress Topper latexforless.com

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Natura Greenspring Ultra Plush Mattress.

Debra writes:

 

Hi Pete,

I've been reading your blog posts, that I found on Facebook.

I'm convinced that the Natura Greenspring Ultra Plush Mattress is what I want.

I'm a big woman and my husband is, as well. A big man, that is.

I just want to hear from you that this mattress is high enough quality to last us a while.

And I want to make sure that it has NO MEMORY FOAM in it.

Thanks Debra

 

Hi Debra,

The Natura Greenspring are the highest quality innerspring mattresses I could find, while shopping at the industry trade shows. My wife and I, each over 200 lbs., have the Ultra Plush model at home.

After almost 10 years, it's still in like new condition...if that answers your question.

There is NO Memory Foam in any of their Greenspring mattresses.

Click on this link to view the Natura line of mattresses:

Click on each model to view specifications and prices.

https://www.themattressexpert.com/natura_mattresses.html#/

 

 

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A Mattress for a Plus Size Woman with Severe Fibromyalgia.

 

 

 

 

 

Linda Writes:

Hi Pete,

Out of everything I’ve read, you seem to be the most knowledgeable.

So, I’m in desperate need of your help and a good night’s sleep.

There’s no shortage of salespeople who will tell you that this or that works.

Nothing they’ve recommended has worked for very long.

I’m a plus size gal, suffering from severe fibromyalgia.

Soft enough for my fibro causes back pain. Firm enough for my back causes my fibro to flare. I can’t seem to find the right balance.

Please, help me if you can.

Thanks, Linda

 

Hi Linda,

The key word you used, is “Balance”.

All things in life are better when balanced.

You will never find one product that will provide your body with everything it needs. 

 

You need enough firmness of support to maintain proper spinal alignment to keep your back from hurting. 

You then need enough surface comfort to relieve your fibromyalgia pain.

 

While many products provide softness, not many wear well.

My recommendation to you will come in two, perhaps 3, parts.

 

First, a mattress that provides firm, but not stiff support.

The contouring support of an individually pocket coil mattress does this better than any other type of mattress.

 

Second, a soft mattress topper that lasts.

Of these, soft organic latex is the most resilient, providing long term surface comfort.

 

This third product is specifically for those suffering with severe fibromyalgia.

A synthetic down, aka alternative down topper.

This product provides extraordinary surface softness.

It’s nowhere near as durable as latex, but much longer lasting than real down.

This top layer will likely need yearly replacing.

 

The latex topper does a couple of things.

It provides a long term, softer base support for the alternative down topper, which by itself won’t be soft enough on a reasonably firm mattress.

It also preserves the integrity of the mattress under a plus size person, so that the mattress won’t need replacing anytime soon.

 

The soft latex topper doesn’t allow you to sink, but is soft enough to relieve fibro pain for most who suffer with that condition.

The added alternative down topper is for severe cases.

 

Covering everything with an organic cotton waterproof mattress protector will enhance the longevity of your new sleep system, by keeping your upholstery layers clean and dry. Few things are more damaging to them  than perspiration.

 

Here are links to all of the products I’m recommending to you.

The Mattress: https://shrsl.com/4m5if

The Latex Topper: https://shrsl.com/4m5in

The Alternative Down Topper: https://shrsl.com/4m5iv

The Organic Cotton Waterproof Mattress Protector: 

Sleep and Beyond Protectors and Encasements themattressexpert.com

 

If you have an old box spring, that too will need to be replaced.

Here’s a link to the one we carry.

Foundations and Adjustable Bases themattressexpert.com

Heads up: this post includes affiliate links. If you click and purchase, I may receive a small commission at no extra cost to you. I only recommend products I have personally vetted.

 

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A Mattress for a Plus Size Woman with Severe Fibromyalgia.

 

 

 

Linda Writes:

Hi Pete,

Out of everything I’ve read, you seem to be the most knowledgeable.

So, I’m in desperate need of your help and a good night’s sleep.

There’s no shortage of salespeople who will tell you that this or that works.

Nothing they’ve recommended has worked for very long.

I’m a plus size gal, suffering from severe fibromyalgia.

Soft enough for my fibro causes back pain. Firm enough for my back causes my fibro to flare. I can’t seem to find the right balance.

Please, help me if you can.

Thanks, Linda

 

Hi Linda,

The key word you used, is “Balance”.

All things in life are better when balanced.

You will never find one product that will provide your body with everything it needs. 

 

You need enough firmness of support to maintain proper spinal alignment to keep your back from hurting. 

You then need enough surface comfort to relieve your fibromyalgia pain.

 

While many products provide softness, not many wear well.

My recommendation to you will come in two, perhaps 3, parts.

 

First, a mattress that provides firm, but not stiff support.

The contouring support of an individually pocket coil mattress does this better than any other type of mattress.

 

Second, a soft mattress topper that lasts.

Of these, soft organic latex is the most resilient, providing long term surface comfort.

 

This third product is specifically for those suffering with severe fibromyalgia.

A synthetic down, aka alternative down topper.

This product provides extraordinary surface softness.

It’s nowhere near as durable as latex, but much longer lasting than real down.

This top layer will likely need yearly replacing.

 

The latex topper does a couple of things.

It provides a long term, softer base support for the alternative down topper, which by itself won’t be soft enough on a reasonably firm mattress.

It also preserves the integrity of the mattress under a plus size person, so that the mattress won’t need replacing anytime soon.

 

The soft latex topper doesn’t allow you to sink, but is soft enough to relieve fibro pain for most who suffer with that condition.

The added alternative down topper is for severe cases.

 

Covering everything with an organic cotton waterproof mattress protector will enhance the longevity of your new sleep system, by keeping your upholstery layers clean and dry. Few things are more damaging to them  than perspiration.

 

Here are links to all of the products I’m recommending to you.

The Mattress: https://shrsl.com/4m5if

The Latex Topper: https://shrsl.com/4m5in

The Alternative Down Topper: https://shrsl.com/4m5iv

The Organic Cotton Waterproof Mattress Protector: 

Sleep and Beyond Protectors and Encasements themattressexpert.com

 

If you have an old box spring, that too will need to be replaced.

Here’s a link to the one we carry.

Foundations and Adjustable Bases themattressexpert.com

Thanks, Pete - TME

 

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Online Ordering is Easy & Secure.

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Always:

Use a waterproof mattress protector. 

Your new mattress will last longer if kept it clean and dry.

https://www.themattressexpert.com/sleep_and_beyond_protectors _and_encasements.html#/

 

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A Mattress for a Plus Size Woman with Severe Fibromyalgia.

 

 

 

Linda Writes:

Hi Pete,

Out of everything I’ve read, you seem to be the most knowledgeable.

So, I’m in desperate need of your help and a good night’s sleep.

There’s no shortage of salespeople who will tell you that this or that works.

Nothing they’ve recommended has worked for very long.

I’m a plus size gal, suffering from severe fibromyalgia.

Soft enough for my fibro causes back pain. Firm enough for my back causes my fibro to flare. I can’t seem to find the right balance.

Please, help me if you can.

Thanks, Linda

 

Hi Linda,

The key word you used, is “Balance”.

All things in life are better when balanced.

You will never find one product that will provide your body with everything it needs. 

 

You need enough firmness of support to maintain proper spinal alignment to keep your back from hurting. 

You then need enough surface comfort to relieve your fibromyalgia pain.

 

While many products provide softness, not many wear well.

My recommendation to you will come in two, perhaps 3, parts.

 

First, a mattress that provides firm, but not stiff support.

The contouring support of an individually pocket coil mattress does this better than any other type of mattress.

 

Second, a soft mattress topper that lasts.

Of these, soft organic latex is the most resilient, providing long term surface comfort.

 

This third product is specifically for those suffering with severe fibromyalgia.

A synthetic down, aka alternative down topper.

This product provides extraordinary surface softness.

It’s nowhere near as durable as latex, but much longer lasting than real down.

This top layer will likely need yearly replacing.

 

The latex topper does a couple of things.

It provides a long term, softer base support for the alternative down topper, which by itself won’t be soft enough on a reasonably firm mattress.

It also preserves the integrity of the mattress under a plus size person, so that the mattress won’t need replacing anytime soon.

 

The soft latex topper doesn’t allow you to sink, but is soft enough to relieve fibro pain for most who suffer with that condition.

The added alternative down topper is for severe cases.

 

Covering everything with an organic cotton waterproof mattress protector will enhance the longevity of your new sleep system, by keeping your upholstery layers clean and dry. Few things are more damaging to them  than perspiration.

 

Here are links to all of the products I’m recommending to you.

The Mattress: https://shrsl.com/4m5if

The Latex Topper: https://shrsl.com/4m5in

The Alternative Down Topper: https://shrsl.com/4m5iv

The Organic Cotton Waterproof Mattress Protector: 

Sleep and Beyond Protectors and Encasements themattressexpert.com

 

If you have an old box spring, that too will need to be replaced.

Here’s a link to the one we carry.

Foundations and Adjustable Bases themattressexpert.com

Thanks, Pete - TME

 

Delivery is Always Free 

Online Ordering is Easy & Secure.

Visa, M/C, Discover, Amex

Or Choose 4 Interest Free Bi-Monthly Payments with afterpay

 

Always:

Use a waterproof mattress protector. 

Your new mattress will last longer if kept it clean and dry.

https://www.themattressexpert.com/sleep_and_beyond_protectors _and_encasements.html#/

 

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Natura of Canada Greenspring Mattresses for Large People with Back Pain.

Ellen writes:

 

Hi Pete,

I am in the market to replace my ancient queen mattress/box springs but am dealing with a couple of issues:

1) Husband and I are around 200 lbs but are around the same height. We are both side sleepers.

2) I have back pain due to DDD, degenerated disc disease.

I suppose I am looking for something of quality, (resistant to sagging), that will address the pain issues.

Neither of us likes a soft mattress.

Natura of Canada Greenspring Mattresses look like good, but which model?

Thanks, Ellen

 

Hi Ellen,

One of our most frequently recommendations will also suit the two of you...as it has, the two of us.

My wife and I are, each, over 200 lbs.

I, too, have DDD along with herniated and bulging discs.

I sleep and wake with no back pain.

 

Our Natura of Canada Greenspring mattress is more than 9.5 years old and still in like new condition.

The quality of these mattresses is very high and all are firmer than their firmness designation.

We have the Ultra Plush, which is more like a regular plush.

I suggest either the Luxury Firm or Plush models. The "Firm" model is like the floor.

Here is a link to that line of mattresses:

https://www.themattressexpert.com/natura_mattresses.html#/

 

 

These Mattresses come with White Glove Delivery.

Delivery includes setup in your bedroom and removal of all packaging materials.

 

Delivery is Always Free
Online ordering is Easy & Secure
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Thanks, Pete - TME

 

VERY IMPORTANT:

Keeping your mattress clean and dry will increase its longevity.

We recommend our Organic Cotton Waterproof Mattress Protector. 

https://www.themattressexpert.com/store/p169/Organic_Cotton_Waterproof_Mattress_Protector.html#/

 

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A Mattress for a Large Woman w/ Lupus, Lower Spine Deterioration.

Ellen writes:

Hi Pete,

I need your help! My sister is a very sick woman. 

She suffers with Systemic Lupus, Diabetes, and her lower spine is deteriorated at several levels.

She desperately needs a mattress but the specifics we are concerned about is as follows:

 

Overweight - every mattress we get ends up like a hammock due to the weight

Back -  she needs something that is very supportive of her spine.

We have an approximate budget of $1,800 - $2,000.00, queen size.

 

Thank you so much!

With warmest regards, Ellen

 

Hi Ellen,

Most mattresses hammock under any weight, due to the memory foam upholstery that you’ll find in most of the mattresses made over the last decade.

An individually pocketed coil system will provide contouring support that maintains the natural alignment of the spine.

This is the best you can do to relieve chronic back pain.

A high coil count, made of heavy gauge double tempered steel is the best you can do for a heavy person.

All natural latex is the most resilient upholstery material available.

Latex provides surface comfort that doesn’t allow you to sink.

The feel it provides is best described as ‘floating’.

What’s more, latex will absorb much of her body weight, which extends the life of the support system in the mattress.

 

A mattress alone that’s comfortable enough from the start, won’t long stay that way under a heavy person. 

So, my recommendation comes in two parts…

…a firm mattress and a soft latex topper.

 

The Wolf Tulah Luxury Plush Eurotop Mattress provides firm, contouring support.

The over-all feel of this mattress is noticeably firmer than the name implies.

 

UPDATE!…This Wolf Mattress Has Been Discontinued.

 

We are pleased to offer you a higher quality mattress from Eco-Terra. 

This mattress provides the same support with an upgrade in upholstery.

The higher quality upholstery provides greater comfort and longevity.

Click on this link:

Hybrid Latex Mattress | Eco Terra Mattress ecoterrabeds.com

 

 

The Suite Sleep Organic Latex Topper is what you’ll add to that.

The question then becomes, “which one?”.

If by heavy, you mean a couple of hundred pounds, then she can get the Soft version.

If she's 300 lbs. or more, then the Medium Soft is better for wear.

However, Lupus can be quite painful. She may want to trade some durability for more comfort.

Normally for a large person, I recommend the 2”. But, the 3” is more comfortable.

And trading the Medium Soft for Soft will also add more surface comfort.

A 300 lb. person on a 3” soft, may only get a few years from that topper.

All in all, it’s better to be more comfortable for a shorter length of time than less comfortable for a longer period of time.

But that’s a personal call, usually based on finances more than any other reason.

Here’s a link to the Suite Sleep line of Latex Toppers.

https://www.themattressexpert.com/suite_sleep_latex_toppers.html#/

 

 

 

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VERY IMPORTANT:

Keeping your mattress clean and dry will increase its longevity.

We recommend our Organic Cotton Waterproof Mattress Protector. 

https://www.themattressexpert.com/store/p169/Organic_Cotton_Waterproof_Mattress_Protector.html#/

 

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A 49 y/o, 200# woman having a hard time finding a good mattress.

Hi Pete,

I'm a 49 y/o, 200# woman having a hard time finding a good mattress. We had a Sealy iCollection Manor Firm that was way too firm and has been moved to the guest room after a month. We then purchased the Tempur-Breeze Luxe in Soft from Temper-pedic. I'hate it. I hate the feeling of sinking in and that I can't move. It's making me somewhat claustrophobic. I used to have the Westin Heavenly Bed and I miss it so much but it aged out (I got it in 2007 or so and replaced it with a Kirkland Brand 14.5" Pillow Top Stearns & Foster which I loved but after 6 months there were permanent divots where I slept. 

I've had zero success finding a replacement over the last 6 months. My partner is 6ft and also 200#. He likes a very firm bed. I do not apparently. (The Sealy was like sitting on a cardboard box.) 
Can you help me find something? I'm losing sleep and at my wits end. 

Thank you!

Jennifer

 

Hi Jennifer,

You’re have a difficult time because of all the memory foam used in all of the name brand mattresses…which have all been sold.

Prior to them being sold, the focus was on quality. Today, profits are all that matter.

After they were sold, we stopped selling them, because of the reduction in quality.

That sent us shopping at the industry trade shows to find quality products.

 

The Natura of Canada Greenspring line of mattresses was the best we could find.

My wife and I have been sleeping on their Ultra Plush model for the past 9.5 years.

We are each over 200 lbs. and our mattress is still in like new condition.

The quality is extraordinary.

What’s more, I sleep and wake without back pain, despite having a very bad back.

 

Due to the high quality and resiliency of the components, it’s not as soft as it sounds.

It’s comfortable, but not too soft and there’s no sinking in.

The materials used are all natural, so there’s no off gassing.

 

Here’s a link to that mattress.

https://www.themattressexpert.com/store/p142/Natura_Greenspring_Liberta_Ultra_Plush.html#/

 

It comes with White Glove Delivery.

Delivery includes setup in your bedroom and removal of all packaging materials.

Allow approx. 4-6 weeks for delivery.

Thanks, Pete

 

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