The Mattress Expert

Can you help me find a mattress that will not sink in?

Debbie writes:

 

Hi Pete,

Can you help me find a mattress that will not sink in?

My wife and I are having a difficult time finding a mattress that doesn't become painful.

I'm average in size and my wife is petite.

Despite our sizes, the last 3 mattresses have sunken in within a matter of months.

We need a mattress that will give us support and be comfortable, and not sink in.

 

Thanks, Debbie

 

Hi Debbie,

It will be helpful to you to know why your last 3 mattresses allow you to sink in.

Almost all of today's mattresses are upholstered with memory foam.

And while advertising and salesman's hype would have you believe that memory foam is good, it isn't.

In fact, it's the worst upholstery material ever invented.

It's the only upholstery material that is temperature sensitive.

As such, it softens as it warms from your body heat, allowing you to sink into it.

THAT, and the short life, reflecting your body's heat to you and the off gassing of the toxic chemicals from which memory foam is made, makes it the absolute worst thing you can buy.

Avoid any mattress that's upholstered with memory foam.

 

Try The Wolf Old Fashioned Two Sided Brolynn Mattress in Plush.

The individually pocketed coils maintain the natural alignment of your spine.

The upholstery is Natural, Plant Based Polyurethane Foam. 

This mattress contains NO Memory Foam.

Click on this link to view specifications and prices:

https://themattressexpert.com/our-brands/two-sided-mattresses/

 

 

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Thanks, Pete

 

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What do you recommend for a mattress cover to block out the off gassing of memory foam?

Irene writes:

 

Hi Pete, 

What do you recommend for a mattress cover to block out the off gassing of memory foam? 

I have developed a severe allergic reaction to it.

Thanks, Irene

 

Hi Irene,

The only thing that I have that might help is a Sleep & Beyond Waterproof Mattress Encasement.

Shown here:

https://themattressexpert.com/waterproof-mattress-protectors-encasements/

I’m a bit dubious about the success of this, as water molecules are bigger than gas molecules. 

It’s the off gassing of the toxic chemicals used to make memory foam that is adversely affecting you.

My recommendation is to get rid of that mattress.

The memory foam off gassing presents a health hazard to every breathing being in your home.

 

 

 

 

 

Thanks, Pete

 

Every Mattress is Freshly Made to fill your order...Guaranteed!

 

VERY IMPORTANT:

Keeping your mattress clean and dry will increase its longevity.

We recommend our Organic Cotton Waterproof Mattress Protector. 

https://themattressexpert.com/bedding/sleepbeyond/sleep-beyond-bedding/sleep-beyond-mattress-protector/

 

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I'm on my 3rd memory foam mattress in 5 years!

Darlene writes:

Hi Pete,

I'm on my 3rd memory foam mattress in 5 years!  

Actually, my husband is still on the memory foam. 

I'm currently sleeping on an air mattress on the floor.

That's how bad my back hurts.  I've tried everything.

I've turned the "no flip" on the hard side and added a memory foam topper .

I've added another memory foam topper on top of the "good" side of the mattress.

After having read and reread your website, I am currently wondering whether a firm latex mattress topper over the memory foam mattress will help - or am I just wasting more money?

I am 66 - my husband is 75. I weigh 165 lbs and sleep on my side. 

My husband weighs 200 lbs and sleeps on his back.  

Thank you in advance for any assistance!

Darlene

 

Hi Darlene,

Since you’ve been reading my blog posts, you must have figured out that your problem has been the memory foam all along. Adding more memory foam was your waste of money.

Adding a firm latex topper to the top of a memory foam mattress will not produce the results you want.

 

Your memory foam mattress isn’t all memory foam.

The memory foam is only on the top.

The memory foam is supported by firm, high density poly foam.

 

Your solution is to add a Soft Suite Sleep Pure Latex Topper to the flip side of your mattress.

This provides the firm support and soft sleeping surface that a body needs.

You don't sink into soft latex. It's extremely resilient and will hold you up.

The best way to describe the feel, is that you're floating.

Those latex toppers, shown here:

https://themattressexpert.com/latex-toppers/suite-sleep-toppers/

When it arrives, flip your mattress over and add the latex topper.

Get rid of all your memory foam toppers. They’re worthless.

 

When the time comes to buy a new mattress, get a firm individually pocketed coil innerspring.

You can use that same topper on top of it.

 

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Thanks, Pete

 

Every Mattress is Freshly Made to fill your order...Guaranteed!

 

VERY IMPORTANT:

Keeping your mattress clean and dry will increase its longevity.

We recommend our Organic Cotton Waterproof Mattress Protector. 

https://themattressexpert.com/bedding/sleepbeyond/sleep-beyond-bedding/sleep-beyond-mattress-protector/

 

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I am ready to purchase a Suite Sleep Latex Mattress Topper.

Barb writes:

 

Hi Pete,

I spoke with you a year ago, and I am ready to purchase a Suite Sleep Latex Mattress Topper.  

We have a newer mattress, firm and no pillow top.

My husband is a side sleeper and has some neck issues.

(I'm also ordering a Pure Talalay Bliss Shredded Latex Pillow for him).

I am a a back and side sleeper, with lumbar scoliosis and arthritis.  

Should we order the 2" or 3" Suite Sleep Organic Dunlop Latex Topper?  

And should we go with Soft or Medium Soft?

Thanks, Barb

 

Hi Barb,

Both, the 2" and 3", will help.

But there's no question that the 3" provides a greater degree of surface comfort.

Given your arthritis, if for no other reason, I recommend the Suite Sleep 3" Soft Latex Topper.

Shown here:

https://themattressexpert.com/xcart5/suite-organic-latex-topper.html

 

Also, here is the link to the Pure Talalay Bliss Shredded Latex Pillow...for relief of chronic neck pain.

https://themattressexpert.com/organics/organic-pillows/purebliss-latex-pillows-page/

 

UPS/FedEx Shipping is Free.

Both items usually ship in about a week, or so.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Thanks, Pete

 

Every Mattress is Freshly Made to fill your order...Guaranteed!

 

VERY IMPORTANT:

Keeping your mattress clean and dry will increase its longevity.

We recommend our Organic Cotton Waterproof Mattress Protector. 

https://themattressexpert.com/bedding/sleepbeyond/sleep-beyond-bedding/sleep-beyond-mattress-protector/

 

Website: http://themattressexpert.com/

Email: pete.themattressexpert@gmail.com

Voicemail: 1-856-874-6894 

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Endy and Tempur-Pedic mattresses caused me crippling pain.

Ella writes:

 

Hi Pete,

I am 42 and suffer from a sports hernia and hip joint issue.

I have a weakened core and suffer lower back pain if my core is not supported properly.

I sleep on my side/tummy.

I cannot have a bed that allows my core to sink, and it can't be too hard that my hips feel pressure.  

I am 35 lbs over weight, that seems to remain consistent no matter what I do!

I have been sleeping on an Endy mattress for 2.5 years and hate it.  

I have more pain now than ever and I can hardly get out of the bed in the morning because of it.  

I thought my injury was just getting worse until last week when I stayed at holiday inn express for 3 nights and quickly realized I had no pain in the morning. Since being back home, I can hardly walk.  

Before Endy we had a Tempur-Pedic which also caused me crippling pain.

Hubby sleeps back/side and has had upper back and neck pain ever since we got this stupid bed.  

Can you suggest a bed for us?

Thanks, Ella

 

Hello Ella,

An individually pocketed coil unit is designed to maintain the natural alignment of the spine, which is the best you can do to relieve pain from disc related back problems.

The worst you can do is buy any mattress upholstered with memory foam.

Memory foam softens as it warms from your body heat, allowing you to sink, which throws off your spine's alignment. Any mattress upholstered with memory foam will make any back problems worse.

That hotel mattress used an individually pocketed coil and no memory foam.

 

We specialize in mattresses that have no memory foam in them.

You have a couple of options at different price points.

I'm recommending the Wolf Brolynn Old Fashioned Two Sided Mattress.

You’ll what that in the choice of “Plush” for the surface comfort you need.

Click on this link to view specifications and prices.

https://themattressexpert.com/our-brands/two-sided-mattresses/

UPS delivery is free

 

 

 

 

 

 

Thanks, Pete

 

Every Mattress is Freshly Made to fill your order...Guaranteed!

 

VERY IMPORTANT:

Keeping your mattress clean and dry will increase its longevity.

We recommend our Organic Cotton Waterproof Mattress Protector. 

https://themattressexpert.com/bedding/sleepbeyond/sleep-beyond-bedding/sleep-beyond-mattress-protector/

 

Website: http://themattressexpert.com/

Email: pete.themattressexpert@gmail.com

Voicemail: 1-856-874-6894 

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A selection of mattresses that DO NOT have memory foam.

Paula writes:

 

Hi Pete,

After finding and reading your blog posts, I know I don't want a mattress with memory foam in it.

But when I go to any of my local stores, that's all they have.

Can you send me a selection of mattresses that DO NOT have memory foam?

Thanks, Paula

 

Hi Paula,

Nothing we sell has any memory foam. 

It's, simply, the worst upholstery material ever invented, and for a number of reasons.

Here is a link to the Wolf line of mattresses...none, of which, have memory foam in them.

https://themattressexpert.com/our-brands/wolf-mattress/

The Old Fashioned Two Sided Brolynn Mattress in Plush is our most popular and most comfortable.

UPS Shipping is Free.

These mattresses ship quickly, usually within a week's time.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Thanks, Pete

 

Every Mattress is Freshly Made to fill your order...Guaranteed!

 

VERY IMPORTANT:

Keeping your mattress clean and dry will increase its longevity.

We recommend our Organic Cotton Waterproof Mattress Protector. 

https://themattressexpert.com/bedding/sleepbeyond/sleep-beyond-bedding/sleep-beyond-mattress-protector/

 

Website: http://themattressexpert.com/

Email: pete.themattressexpert@gmail.com

Voicemail: 1-856-874-6894 

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Time to replace a Vera Wang mattress.

Ruth writes:

 

Hi Pete,

I have a Vera Wang mattress that I absolutely loved.

But unfortunately, it’s time to replace it with something new. 

To my understanding they do not make Vera Wang mattresses anymore.

Can you suggest something that is very compatible? 

Thank you, Ruth

 

Hi Ruth,

Vera Wang was paid for her endorsement by Serta.

Serta has since been sold and the quality of their mattresses is now greatly reduced.

It had a luxurious feel....a feel that today's luxury mattresses lose within months of purchase.

In order to get a luxurious feel, today, that will also last for many years, will require a soft latex topper.

The sleep system combination I recommend comes in two parts.

The Wolf Old Fashioned Two Sided Brolynn Mattress in Plush...durable, comfortable, but not luxurious.

Click on this link to view specifications and prices:

https://themattressexpert.com/our-brands/two-sided-mattresses/

The Luxurious surface feel comes from adding a Suite Sleep Soft Pure Latex Mattress Topper.

The softest of them is the Pure Vita Talalay and the 3" Extra Soft Organic Dunlop Latex Toppers.

Shown here:

https://themattressexpert.com/latex-toppers/suite-sleep-toppers/

Together, you'll have everything you want, and for many years to come.

Shipping is FREE.

 

 

 

Thanks, Pete

 

 

Every Mattress is Freshly Made to fill your order...Guaranteed!

 

VERY IMPORTANT:

Keeping your mattress clean and dry will increase its longevity.

We recommend our Organic Cotton Waterproof Mattress Protector. 

https://themattressexpert.com/bedding/sleepbeyond/sleep-beyond-bedding/sleep-beyond-mattress-protector/

 

Website: http://themattressexpert.com/

Email: pete.themattressexpert@gmail.com

Voicemail: 1-856-874-6894 

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I need a mattress to relieve my chronic back pain.

Brent writes:

Hi Pete,

I need a mattress to relieve my chronic back pain.

I'm average size.

I've read some of your blog posts and now know what I've been doing wrong. Thank you for that.

What do you recommend?

Thanks, Brent

 

Hi Brent.

The Wolf Old Fashioned Two Sided Brolynn Mattress in Plush is my recommendation.

https://themattressexpert.com/our-brands/two-sided-mattresses/

The individually pocketed coils contour to the shape of the body, maintaining the natural alignment of the spine. This is what will relieve any chronic back pain.

The coils are very strong, so you’ll get a lot of years from it.

The upholstery is natural plant based polyurethane foam, which doesn’t allow you to sink and has no chemicals to off gas.

 

UPS shipping is free.

Delivery takes about a week or so.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Thanks, Pete

 

Every Mattress is Freshly Made to fill your order...Guaranteed!

 

VERY IMPORTANT:

Keeping your mattress clean and dry will increase its longevity.

We recommend our Organic Cotton Waterproof Mattress Protector. 

https://themattressexpert.com/bedding/sleepbeyond/sleep-beyond-bedding/sleep-beyond-mattress-protector/

 

Website: http://themattressexpert.com/

Email: pete.themattressexpert@gmail.com

Voicemail: 1-856-874-6894 

Free Delivery...Factory Direct.

All Items Made Factory Fresh to Fill Your Order

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I hope you can help us find a king size mattress. We are on a budget.

Moshe writes:

 

Hi Pete,

I came across your blog and hope you can help us find a king size mattress. 

I weight 175 and my wife 132. We live in a hot climate, (Florida). 

I like a soft feel and my wife likes it not too soft but comfortable. 

Also, I have some lower back pains. We are on a budget.

Please let us know if you have anything to recommend us!

Thanks for your help,

Moshe

Hi Moshe,

I have a mattress that sounds like it would have the perfect feel for your wife.

The Wolf Old Fashioned Two Sided Brolynn Mattress in Plush.

Shown here:

https://themattressexpert.com/our-brands/two-sided-mattresses/

This mattress uses an individually pocketed coil, which maintains the natural alignment of the body & spine.

This type of support is what will relieve your back pain.

The plush upholstery is natural, plant based polyurethane foam.

It’s comfortable without being overly soft by anyone’s standards.

 

There is no memory foam in this mattress.

Memory foam wears quickly, sleeps hot, and off gasses the toxic chemicals from which memory foam is made….which is why we don’t sell mattresses that have any memory foam in them.

 

The coil unit is quite firm, using heavy gauge double tempered steel.

So, if you’d like to further soften the surface a bit more, should you find it to be not soft enough to suit your needs, you’ll be able to add a softer mattress topper without negating the underlying firm support…which should still be ok with the Mrs.

 

UPS Shipping Is Free

 

 

 

 

 

 

Thanks, Pete

 

Every Mattress is Freshly Made to fill your order...Guaranteed!

 

VERY IMPORTANT:

Keeping your mattress clean and dry will increase its longevity.

We recommend our Organic Cotton Waterproof Mattress Protector. 

https://themattressexpert.com/bedding/sleepbeyond/sleep-beyond-bedding/sleep-beyond-mattress-protector/

 

Website: http://themattressexpert.com/

Email: pete.themattressexpert@gmail.com

Voicemail: 1-856-874-6894 

Free Delivery...Factory Direct.

All Items Made Factory Fresh to Fill Your Order

Serving The US & Canada...NO SALES TAX.

I'm looking for a really soft pillow that doesn't flatten out.

Mario writes:

 

Hi Peter,

I am requesting your assistance in picking a proper mattress and pillows for me.

I am about 5'3 250lbs and sleep with 3 pillows. 

My mom is finally letting me pick out a new pillow. I am willing to try something new. 

I'm looking for a really soft pillow that doesn't flatten out as soon as I lay my head on it.

Please, Peter, I'm counting on you.

Mario

 

Good Morning Mario,

What I recommend for a fellow your size, is the Wolf Adrian Mattress.

It is a very strong mattress that will hold up well for many years.

Click on this link to view specifications and prices:

https://themattressexpert.com/our-brands/wolf-mattress/adrian/

 

We do carry a very soft pillow that doesn’t flatten out.

It’s made of natural latex…very soft and comfy.

I use that same pillow at home and have been using it for several years.

It still feels as it did when it was new.

Here’s a link to the Pure Talalay Bliss Classic Talalay Latex Pillow.

https://themattressexpert.com/organics/organic-pillows/purebliss-latex-pillows-page/

It’s available in queen or king size.

It’s also available in high and low profile.

 

Shipping is free

 

 

 

 

 

 

Thanks, Pete

 

Every Mattress is Freshly Made to fill your order...Guaranteed!

 

VERY IMPORTANT:

Keeping your mattress clean and dry will increase its longevity.

We recommend our Organic Cotton Waterproof Mattress Protector. 

https://themattressexpert.com/bedding/sleepbeyond/sleep-beyond-bedding/sleep-beyond-mattress-protector/

 

Website: http://themattressexpert.com/

Email: pete.themattressexpert@gmail.com

Voicemail: 1-856-874-6894 

Free Delivery...Factory Direct.

All Items Made Factory Fresh to Fill Your Order

Serving The US & Canada...NO SALES TAX.