Your situation is a bit complex. As such, it's incredibly important that you don't aggravate one condition while addressing another.
Your husband needs to be tilted, but your spinal condition requires you to remain flat.
So, lets start there.
We carry an adjustable bed base from Glideaway. This unit does everything any other adjustable base does, but also has a feature that none of the other adjustable bases have.
It'a their "Tilt" feature.
This tilt feature is unique. It tilts the bed while remaining flat.
This allows for easier breathing for your husband, while providing the "unbent" support you spine issues require.
Here is a link to that line. I recommend the "Ascend" model as the better buy.
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